Jimmy Kimmel, Sean Hannity, and How to Save Our Souls

Jimmy Kimmel and Sean Hannity got into an escalating Twitter war last week. Their conflict is a good example of mimetic theory and everything that’s wrong with our culture.

It all began when Jimmy Kimmel attempted to make a joke about Melania Trump, who was reading books to children on Easter. Kimmel showed a clip of Trump reading to children. After the clip, Kimmel mocked Trump’s accent.

Then Hannity responded by coming to Trump’s rescue, saying on his show, “Brutal. Liberal Jimmy Kimmel making fun of the First Lady of the United States and her involvement in the White House Easter Egg Roll. Even her accent. Jimmy, you are a despicable disgrace…This ass clown Kimmel. Now I gotta tell you something. What a disgrace. Mr. Kimmel, that’s her fifth language. How many do you speak?”

Well, you know that Kimmel had to defend himself, so he wondered aloud about what exactly an “ass clown” is and why Hannity is so interested in them. Then Kimmel admitted that he might be an ass clown, but if he’s an ass clown, well then, Hannity is the whole ass circus!

Zinger!

Then they took their feud to Twitter for their followers to get in on the act. Which is, you know, lovely.

And here’s where mimetic theory helps us understand this cycle of verbal bombs. Mimetic is the Greek word for imitative. We humans are fundamentally imitative creatures. The most obvious example is in violence. Physical violence for sure, but also verbal violence. If you hit me, my natural response is to imitate your hit. I will hit you back. The same goes for verbal blows. If you say something negative about me, I will naturally respond by saying something negative about you. We see this cycle of physical and verbal violence on individual and national levels.

Until someone stops the cycle.

And that’s what Kimmel did. He wrote an apology, “…after some thought, I realize that the level of vitriol from all sides (mine and me included) does nothing good for anyone and, in fact, is harmful to our country.”

Yes, it is. And thank you, Jimmy Kimmel, for naming the fact that you got caught up in the very thing that’s harming our country. Our national soul is contaminated by this vitriol.

But, you might be wondering, what was Hannity’s response to Kimmel’s apology? Hannity invited Kimmel to come on his show so that they could have a polite discussion about policy. But if Kimmel ever tries to attack the First Lady again, Hannity warned, “I promise I will punch back even harder.”

Kimmel’s apology seemed somewhat sincere. While he admitted that he got caught up in vitriol, he couldn’t help make veiled verbal jabs against Donald Trump. But that’s beside the point.

Hannity claimed that his religion has taught him to accept apologies, and so he accepted Kimmel’s apology. Hannity is a Catholic, but his form of Catholicism doesn’t seem very Christ-like to me. It seems more like Donald Trump. You know, the Donald Trump who says, “Get even with people. If they screw you, screw them back 10 times as hard. I really believe that.”

Because surely you remember that passage in the Gospels where Jesus says, “If someone slaps you on the right cheek…slap that ass clown on the other cheek even harder!”

Trump and Hannity both claim to be Christians. And who am I to say otherwise? Apparently, we just follow different Jesuses. The Jesus I (imperfectly) attempt to follow teaches to turn the other cheek.

Interestingly, Jimmy Kimmel is a Catholic, too. And so I wonder, how could two Catholics be so different?

I think it boils down to this: Mimetic theory claims we will always imitate someone. That’s why Jesus says, “Follow me.” He knew that we need a model. The most important question the feud between Kimmel and Hannity poses to us is, “Which Christ are we going to follow?” One member of this feud attempts to follow the Christ who tells us to repent and turn the other cheek. The other follows a Christ who somehow justifies revenge.

Unfortunately, there are liberals who criticize Kimmel for backing down from his fight with Hannity. They say you should never back down for Hannity and conservatives because they will do just what Hannity did – hit back harder. Cenk Uygur of The Young Turks stated,

When you back down from conservatives, or you apologize, or you are in any way decent to them, it never pays. All they do is rub it in your face. They never do likewise. Hannity never apologized for any of the things that he said that were way over the top in regards to Jimmy Kimmel and he never will. Instead, he spits in your face. The next time progressives, you are in a situation like this…against the monsters on the right, understand they are not going to reciprocate on your decency.

Uygur is caught up in the mimetic cycle of imitative verbal violence. He’s basically saying that progressives should not be decent people because conservatives will never be decent people. I refuse to give into this defeatist mentality because when we do, no one will ever act decently. In fact, we will become the very “monsters” we oppose. In other words, we all become a bunch of ass clowns.

But Jimmy Kimmel modeled the way out. No matter how we identify politically, the cycle of vitriol leads to the rotting of our souls. We need more people to stop mirroring the vitriol in our culture. We need more people to stop the cycle of hatred and vitriol. We need more people to turn the other cheek and act decently towards others, especially those with whom we disagree. That’s the way to save our souls on a personal and national level.

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8 replies
  1. John Golden
    John Golden says:

    What Uygur doesn’t get is, of course this will happen. You’re not exiting the violence to manipulate or guilt the other person. You’re being non-violent because it’s the wise thing to do. Interestingly, it gives the other party the best chance to also exit, but it’s naive to expect or demand it.

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    • Adam Ericksen
      Adam Ericksen says:

      Yes! Great point, John. Modeling repentance is the only way out for ourselves and for others. To expect or demand it in others is not true repentance. It’s to remain locked in a relationship of power over and against.

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  2. Sailor
    Sailor says:

    This from the writer: “Kimmel’s apology seemed somewhat sincere. While he admitted that he got caught up in vitriol, he couldn’t help make veiled verbal jabs against Donald Trump. But that’s beside the point.”

    I agree with everything this author writes but this. Why I disagree should be obvious to all readers and I will leave it at that.

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    • Adam Ericksen
      Adam Ericksen says:

      Hi Sailor. You make a good point. I debated about that line. I think Kimmel statement that Melania had enough going on in her life that she didn’t need him making fun of her didn’t need to be stated. It may be true, but it felt like an unnecessary jab to me against Trump. At any rate, maybe I didn’t need to write it. I appreciate you bringing it up.

      Peace,
      Adam

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      • Sailor
        Sailor says:

        Hey Adam,
        Great article.
        I just reread what I wrote and it sounds a bit terse. The wasn’t my intention and so I’m sorry for that.
        I was hurriedly trying to say that if Kimmel wanted to give an apology that truly de-escalated the situation, he shouldn’t take a jab at Trump at all as it left the door open for Hannity to keep it going (which, obviously, he did try to do).
        I would suggest a sincere apology and (possibly) a gift to get the memetic cycle to spin back the other way.

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        • Adam Ericksen
          Adam Ericksen says:

          Thank you, Sailor. I agree that a more sincere apology would have been much better. And a gift to get the cycle to shift might be a very good thing indeed!

          Take care,
          Adam

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  3. George
    George says:

    Addressing his mockery of the First Lady’s accent, Kimmel said, “I will take Sean Hannity at his word that he was genuinely offended by what I believe and still believe to be a harmless and silly aside referencing our First Lady’s accent.” Isn’t that a prime example of the classic non-apology apology that we hear so often from public figures? “I apologize if anyone was offended, but only the exceptionally thin-skinned would be offended, since the joke was, after all, harmless.”

    Kimmel followed his “apology” with some gratuitous mockery of Hannity for “his newly-found advocacy for women, immigrants and First Ladies,” expressing a hope “that he will triumph in his heroic battle against sexual harassment and perversion.” As everyone knows, Hannity has never advocated for women’s rights or immigrants and has always been a vocal critic of former First Lady Hillary Clinton. The reference to “sexual harassment” was an unmistakable dig at Hannity’s strong support of Trump, who has been accused of sexual harassment by several women.

    In short, nothing about this “apology” strikes me as sincere, though it was clearly designed to elicit knowing nods and chuckles from Kimmel’s own supporters. Nor do I detect much sincerity in Hannity’s acceptance of the apology, which he said sounded “forced.”

    I suspect that Kimmel figured out that the feud was harming his reputation and so sought a way to exit while losing as little face as possible. Hannity is turn felt compelled to accept the apology, lest he appear ungracious, but he did so without admitting any wrongdoing for his wildly intemperate response to Kimmel’s mockery of the First Lady. The whole incident is emblematic of the sordid depths to which our politics has descended.

    People on the left are bound to minimize Kimmel’s offense and exaggerate the sincerity of his apology. People on the right will presumably do the opposite, while overlooking the over-the-top viciousness of Hannity’s criticism of Kimmel and the less than convincing (one could say “forced’) nature of his acceptance of Kimmel’s apology.

    Treating either Kimmel or Hannity as “models” is a huge mistake. To do so strikes me as just more of the same partisanship that fuels these quarrel rather than an effort heal our divisions. It’s a declaration that “our” side won because “our” guy took the moral high ground while “their” guy remained down in the slime. It seems to me that any impartial assessment of the situation will find them both down in the slime, at roughly equal depths.

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    • Adam Ericksen
      Adam Ericksen says:

      Hey George. Thanks for the comment. I think this part is what struck me most about Kimmel’s imperfect apology,

      “…after some thought, I realize that the level of vitriol from all sides (mine and me included) does nothing good for anyone and, in fact, is harmful to our country.”

      I assume both have big egos and pressure to please their audiences. Kimmel risked displeasing his audience for making an apology. The comment by the Young Turks is proof of that. But to say that “I am part of what’s wrong” is something that I think we need more of.

      If that’s me saying my side is better than their side because my side took the moral high ground, then yes, I’m fully within the scapegoating dynamic. If I’m pointing to two possiblities, one that imperfectly admits to being part of the problem and another that continues to make threats, and then saying we all need to choose which possibility we will make, then I think that’s good wisdom.

      But I think your last sentence is probably just as true. They are both in the slime. And so am I.

      But then I’m left wondering if I just took the moral high ground by saying I’m in the slime. It’s a trap. Motivations are not always 100% sincere. Thus I do think that Kimmel models a better way by saying he’s part of the problem.

      Best wishes,
      Adam

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