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\u201cUnless you change and become like children, you will not enter the kingdom heaven.\u201d (Matt 18:3)<\/p><\/blockquote>\n

Jesus spoke these words as a response to a question from his disciples. Which of us, they demanded to know, was the greatest in the kingdom of heaven. Jesus must have been struck by the contrast between his rivalrous disciples, so-called friends bickering and vying for attention, and the children who were playing nearby. He could have said, \u201cI am, you silly gooses! Don\u2019t compete with me \u2013 follow me!\u201d But he had tried words before to no avail. So he summoned the children to show that greatness in the kingdom means playing joyfully in the moment with a humility that is heedless of rank or position. Only such as these, he explained, are able to know me and follow me.<\/p>\n

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\u201cIf the era in the history of human evolution that is characterized by the constant outbreak of war can be called the \u2018adult period\u2019, then the period in which we begin to build peace will be the \u2018age of the child\u2019.\u201d – Maria Montessori<\/em><\/p><\/blockquote>\n

[\/vc_column_text][\/vc_column][\/vc_row][\/vc_section][vc_row][vc_column][vc_column_text]When my son, Don, was about three and half I enrolled him in a weekly toddler gym class that met once a week. He seemed to enjoy the bouncing and running and playing games. One week I was running late, why I can\u2019t remember. Probably some combination of having dropped off his older sister at pre-school and then tried to squeeze laundry or some shopping errand and still get to his gym class on time. I remember racing through the house and stuffing things in his diaper bag hoping he would help me by putting on his shoes. \u201cWhere are your shoes, Donny? Can you put them on for me?\u201d I asked him probably three or six or twenty times.<\/p>\n

But Donny didn\u2019t seem to be gripped by the same urgency. He stood quietly in the kitchen, a toddler eye in my adult storm until finally I nearly shouted in exasperation, \u201cDon! Don\u2019t you want to go to your gym class?\u201d His answer shocked me into stillness. \u201cNot if I have to rush,\u201d he said. I instantly knew he was right so I dropped the diaper bag and the search for his shoes and followed him to the front porch where we sat on the glider and watched a thunder storm roll in from the west. I have rarely spent such a peaceful, joyful hour.<\/p>\n

Unless you change, he said. Unless you become like children.[\/vc_column_text][\/vc_column][\/vc_row][vc_section][vc_row css=”.vc_custom_1566393555121{background-color: #f6ebdf !important;}” el_class=”optin”][vc_column][vc_column_text css_animation=”none”][\/vc_column_text][\/vc_column][\/vc_row][\/vc_section][vc_row el_class=”olive-branch-bg-l”][vc_column][vc_single_image image=”19935″ img_size=”full” alignment=”center”][vc_row_inner][vc_column_inner][vc_empty_space][vc_column_text]We think that it is children who bicker and demand attention, but maybe it\u2019s us. We think that we are the ones with wisdom to pass on to our children, but maybe they are the wise ones. Perhaps it\u2019s time to learn to follow Jesus by being led by children.<\/p>\n

In an address in 1937, in the pregnant pause between the great wars of the twentieth century, Dr. Maria Montessori said this:<\/p>\n

If the era in the history of human evolution that is characterized by the constant outbreak of war can be called the \u2018adult period\u2019, then the period in which we begin to build peace will be the \u2018age of the child\u2019.<\/p>\n

Unless we change, he said. Montessori believed with Jesus that the children would lead us into a new age, a time for healing when nation will not take up sword against nation, nor will they train for war anymore. Are we humble enough to be led by children into the kingdom of heaven? Today is a good day to begin to practice being led by the wisest among us. Slow down. Play. If you are lucky enough to have children in your life, try to see yourself through their eyes. You will be surprised to discover just how much you are loved, just as you are, and that the new age may have already begun, set in motion by the gaze of a child.[\/vc_column_text][\/vc_column_inner][\/vc_row_inner][\/vc_column][\/vc_row]<\/p>\n<\/div>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Only change can bring about peace. Suzanne Ross joins Jesus and Maria Montessori in the belief we should look to children for guidance along the way.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":19934,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[4293,4328],"tags":[2121,2119,2120,63],"acf":[],"yoast_head":"\n